Fear not, gentle reader, this will not be an ill-judged attempt at a Wham! tribute post. Who would have imagined, in their eighties pomp, that Wham! would go on to put the children of so many panel-beaters (and allied trades) through school and beyond?
It struck me that GofaDM has never described the Festive habits of its author. Whilst you probably don’t care, it is an unmined seam of content and so I am heading down there with my metaphorical pick and some dynamite. As the title suggests, I shall be relying on the most recent midwinter festival as my primary source in what follows.
I have, since being brought forth upon this earth nearly half a century ago, spent Christmas en famille. I have, at times, thought that perhaps I should do something more exciting and more in keeping with my (imagined) role as a dangerous maverick and setter of fashions. These tentative plans have always foundered on two rocks: (i) the amazing power of apathy (especially mine in the depths of winter) and (ii) the awkward conversation that would be required with those who share my blood were I to suddenly replace them with the fishy denizens of a reef off the Maldives (for example). Over the years, the festive line-up has been augmented by a range of guest stars (some appearing for a single season, others with a more recurring role) but it has always centred around the traditional, nuclear family: augmented in recent years by the arrival of my nephew.
I tend to drive back to the family estate(s) on Christmas morning to take advantage of the quiet roads and almost total lack of lorries. Despite this return to the road experience of a gentler age, I find I am already bored with the whole idea of driving within about 15 minutes of departure from home. How people become petrol-heads I have no idea: they must have a much higher tolerance for tedium than I. Whilst in charge of a vehicle, you can’t even read a book, have a nap or enjoy a fruity glass of red (well, not safely or legally): what can the appeal be? I rather fear that I look down on frequent drivers much as I do on those with strong allegiance to a sporting or religious team: i.e. with a combination of pity and grudging admiration for their single-minded commitment to something so soul-destroying.
Having now offended 99.9% of the human population of the planet, perhaps it is time to actually tackle Christmas. I think my Christmas contains most of the key elements: family, presents, crackers and too much food and drink of a broadly traditional form. I may offend some of the 0.1% still with me when I say that I eschew the Brussel sprout: despite the maturing of my palate over the years, I still believe these are a terrible waste of good agricultural land that could better be used to produce cavolo nero (to offer but a single example from the same family).
This year’s special Christmas guest was a giant rabbit – and no he was not a product of my excessive seasonal drinking or called Harvey – who, between enjoying some serious shut-eye, could occasionally be found wandering around the festive throng, munching on unattended presents or wrapping paper.
In an attempt to burn off a few of the seasonal calories, my sister and I played a popular video game entitled Just Dance 2016 after Christmas lunch. This involves replicating the dance moves of a dancer on screen to win points (and no prizes). In fact, the player only has to reproduce the choreography of the right-hand as the games console only monitors this one extremity. The music on offer was clearly not aimed at the listener to BBC Radio 3 and 6Music in his late forties: so I had heard of almost none of the available dance tracks (except a couple of dodgy remakes of classic hits of yesteryear). Despite my lack of familiarity with the soi-disant music on offer, and well-documented lack of skill on the dance floor, I feel I put in a pretty decent performance and was neck-and-neck with my sister throughout (which may only indicate that she can’t dance either). Despite some wildly faliling limbs, there was no need for a festive visit to A&E: which I count as a Terpsichorean triumph!
In days of yore, Boxing Day would be the occasion for a restorative walk, perhaps taking in a supergrid point (or other site of interest) on the way. However, the weather was not conducive to such an excursion and so I used up a few more festive calories helping my father break-up two decidedly hefty UIX workstations and start them on their journey from my parent’s loft to the amenity tip. In the olden days (or the 1990s as I like to call them), workstations were built to last (and, probably, survive all but a direct hit from an ICBM): I think we liberated enough steel to make a decent start on the Royal Navy’s newest destroyer. I fear this is a seasonal pleasure that will be denied to future generations: yet another element lost from the real meaning of Christmas.
On the evening of Boxing Day, after the driving hoards had grown bored of purchasing cheap three piece suites and left the roads, I girded my loins and drove home again (entertained on my way by the foolishness of Count Arthur Strong on the radio). I made it home without a need to buy petrol, meaning I bought no petrol at all in 2015. I really may need to review this whole possession of a car scenario…
For next Christmas, I am planning to bring out my own range of Christmas cards which reflect today’s modern Christmas and its climate. No, not of a family smashing up some old UNIX boxes: though given the strength of the geek market that could be a possibility… No, I’m thinking of Santa Claus, clad in red-and-white waterproofs, riding a submarine pulled by a team of eight dolphins (perhaps one could retain the red “nose”) over a host of sodden daffodils. I feel this far better captures the 21st century British Christmas than all this nonsense about snow and reindeer.